Re: Serena Williams' Stand In These Shoes

Some of you might have read that LONG ass letter Serena Williams wrote about breaking up with some dude and if you haven't then you need to check it out because that shit is TOO long for me to post here lol. [FULL LETTER]

Sigh...Serena, Serena Serena. Not even just Serena, this shit I'm about to say is for ALL you ladies out there who have felt this way. Listen closely: Stop being stupid, please! I honestly couldn't help, but laugh at this letter when I was reading it because its unfathomable how so many girls get tricked by the same exact game! Its borderline ridiculous really. If more women would smarten up and STOP letting these guys tell them what they want to hear then shit like this can be avoided. You know I had to blog about it so here it goes:

Okay, so first off women are going to have to come to the realization that men don't view sex and relationships the same as them, which is the root of the problem. To a man, sex has zero emotions involved so its easy to bounce from one chick to the next like its nothing. Most women can't handle that because sex to females is not about "getting theirs," its about heart, soul and all that other bullshit most men don't care about. Stop getting this shit confused.

Now, contrary to popular belief, dudes know exactly what most females want to hear, so guess what they do?? Tell it to them! Its called running game, duh! Now guess how they figure out what you want to hear?? YOU TELL IT TO HIM! Y'all meet and he asks or you tell him what you're looking for in a man right now so now he knows he just has to be that for awhile to get with you. Basically, stop telling dudes what you want because for the next X amount of time you're just gonna get nothing but that and then some. Then after he's done with you, its nothing to move on because he really put no emotion in at all, he just did what you wanted and now you're left with this burden and feeling all depressed and shit. Just think, if I know what you want me to tell you, in order to get inside yours pants, then why would I try to do anything but that??

Ladies, how about trying telling guys what you DON'T want when you meet them instead? Real men who are looking for relationships can probably appreciate that and work with you, but if he's just in it for sex then he's not gonna waste his time trying to figure out what you want or what it takes to get it. Weak men are afraid of strong women! Its just that simple. Another thing that goes with this is that females need to stop settling for bullshit ass dudes. When you're approached by a guy 99.9% of the time his "courage" to speak to you is sexually driven (probably by your appearance or how good he thinks his chances are) NOT because you seem like a nice girl to bring home to momma. The sad part is that you already know this, but you go ahead with it anyway. That's right, most of you probably know the dude is bullshit or no good when you first meet, but you let other shit effect your judgment to the point that you're listening anyway. Your head is telling you no for a reason, but you don't want to listen to reason, you wanna follow your heart because it "feels so right". I think you can attribute that to females thinking they can change a man (which is NOT true), but who knows??

Anyway, its fuckin' 2008 ladies, smarten the fuck up or stop complaining when you get played! You have all the power, but you keep insisting on letting dumbasses take it away from you, which in turns makes you even dumber. Get it together!